A perfect marriage? is that it?
There is no perfect person, but man / woman has to work on it. It requires an attitude. It takes a certain attitude that people (men / women) for something and someone
lives outside of yourself. This is for me the key message of life - not that MAN (n / female) SELF are the center of the universe,
but this is about the love that you and other shows about taking care of the needs of others
. They are so up in the morning to see your
spouse and ask: What can I do today to make her or his life
worth living? This is the opposite of: Mir submits
roll with plenty of honey to be reasonably satisfied.
make life worth living.
This is an attitude which is against:
"I maintain a schedule," or
"She or he also has not ..."
prevails. Depending on what you feed, proposes the negative or the positive
roots.
Is there a secret to a happy marriage, talk about people just not enough?
Yes. I think we talk mostly about how disappointed, angry,
annoyed, frustrated or confused about our marriage, we, our partners, families, children and
about this and that are. We do not hear often enough to ...
We go into marriage counseling, but sorry, many marriage counselors
run like this: "What has made this week, angry, and what you have
this week excited and we are trying to negotiate that and spend a
amount of time our anger to discuss. It does not go hand in hand
. If I ask: Why do you have fallen in love with him?
Remember why you fell in love with her? Then we return to this
thoughts and memories. We reflect on what was
adorable and precious. If I
my partner / partner would say once what I would have liked, and not always what bothers me about him or her, I would get a different reaction.
How should my partner know what I want from him or would like to see if I could never say? You
my nerves, you keep the toilet lid open ....!
Or it would be so nice would you close the toilet lid respectively ....
What would you, dear reader, dear reader would rather hear?
I also think we spend too much time, so we employ
was the dirt to lay the past, instead of letting it go, we can not change that. We forget to take the responsibility ourselves for our lives, they released to partners, bosses, or even politicians. And we wonder that we do not get what we like to imagine. Anyone who has
says what he wants? we are to brave JA tellers were brought up.
If you are doing in their marriage, only what the other wants, and then get angry about it, poisoning the atmosphere for yourself, too, may say no belongs to a good relationship, and to accept the no of the other so naturally.
Only when I see my partner as a full-fledged human beings and not as an object, my love is alive again. see
Try again, the positive, not only the disturbing what was the good, beautiful, kind? The
where we focus our attention intensifies. Thus, we engaged in when the negatives are reinforced! Thank you
times briefly about it.
love greetings Mirjam
