often falls on me, the addiction is closely related has one or more traumas. Not only trauma in their lives, but often the whole family system seems to be traumatized. The trauma repeats itself from generation to generation. I see more often with clients from Germany or Austria, where great-grandfathers and grandfathers were at war. But even in Switzerland, a generations-border trauma can be found.
The subconscious is looking for a valve, something to get rid of the pressure and the excess energy of the trauma, initially as alcohol or drugs even helps, so for now a solution. Then it's back worse and the dose is increased.
is important that we as outsiders, or even understood as an addict, the addiction is in itself a solution strategy for a problem or trauma, or was. Even if the strategy was not really helpful. Recognizes the addict that he is already one step ahead.
The person concerned, there is no alternative but to deal with his traumatic past.
Our subconscious mind is somewhat limited in it is another alternative to search. Has anything worked once, it uses the same strategy again and again. Does the strategy, not just make it "more" of it! So at the very beginning has a glass of wine is passed around the inner bad feelings to appease some, it must be more and more. From Alcohol or come to any other drug away without solving the basic problem is very difficult. The alcohol is indeed used as a medicine against something. As long as that something is still there, requires the parties concerned, alcohol or an alternative.
Each of us has a father and a mother, which have borne the two in their lives are usually too heavy to bear on the children. Succession, adoption, atonement, broken relationship, identification, double shift.
Many addicts have "want to be" almost without exception, the (in death) and usually unconscious mood. Addiction is on suicide rates.
To help addicts, it is very helpful to look to the great-grandparents back what had happened. With many addicts, especially young often little information about their "history and origin" have. In many cases correlates with the high degree of rejection and abandonment of the family of origin by the addict ...
falls in addicts often have a limited sensitivity. The "do not feel" or "do not feel is a central pattern, which usually leads to minimal self-esteem to the fact that the addict, even in times of sobriety, often afraid to let unpleasant feelings. And then when he spührt something, it's another very big step for him, his own perception . Trust What would he need to trauma resolution in some form, however.
is really important here, the question of the basic problem of the release, which to get to the bottom, to solve this, and then think about a withdrawal after. Many addicts can even say exactly when they started drinking or using drugs, often they know "a" reason, but usually it's much deeper hidden in childhood.
children "healthy" growth strategies to learn from the parents, as children lack self-confidence to dare to even buy something or enough to support even to fail again. Learn the child: it is not worth what it says does not apply It may not have your own opinion, it is vulnerable, unstable, and so on, the risk is great that it has no life crisis at the first opportunity to respond appropriate. It
into a rage, aggression, violence. This can be as children solve one or two hiccups. --- So it works out! ie? --- the subconscious is also repeated in the adult age, and if it does not work, just more of it ---! This person must be
with love, patience and understanding "transformed". He must learn that there is another way.
He should, however, want! and be ready to take the responsibility and then to the new life.
Systemic Hypno-therapy can be very good help
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